My husband and I saw The Incredibles 2 on Saturday and Ocean’s 8 on Sunday. Both brought tears to my eyes as I watched strong female characters do brilliant things.
This was my second time seeing Incredibles – the first time I took my nearly-5-year-old niece. On the walk back to the car she was darting around the sidewalk being Elastigirl, and insisted we listened to Elastigirl’s theme song multiple times on the car ride home while she did more elastic moves in her seat. She asked me for an Elastigirl costume and wig, and to talk to her mom about changing her birthday to an Elastigirl party.
The fact that, in a cartoon superhero movie, she could choose to play the lead hero and that that lead hero was a woman made me emotional. She’s got pajamas with Batman (and Batgirl – is she an actual character?) and Spider-Man on them, and she’s got Wonder Woman wear but I don’t think she knows who WW is. I think Elastigirl might be the first superhero she’s actually seen in a movie – and she kicks butt!
Ocean’s 8 was a similar experience for me; I got choked up watching the incredible cast of women be as clever as their male Ocean counterparts. And I loved that Rhianna was the best hacker in New York – not the stereotypical nerdy white male basement-dweller. I loved that about Black Panther too – T’Challa’s sister Shuri was the tech genius that had me crying with her brilliance.
My husband asked: “would you have seen Ocean’s 8 if it had been a male cast?” I said no. I’ve seen brilliant men do things on screen my whole life – another heist movie with male leads is a drop in the pond. But my bigger problem with these movies is that when men are leads, women are often side-pieces – the sexy romance part of the story that has nothing to do with her intelligence and everything to do with how attractive she is. I’ve heard it so many times: the romance is added for the women seeing the movie with their husbands/boyfriends/dads/brothers/friends. Well I was certainly able to follow the heist plan without romance in Ocean’s 8.
It’s been a great time for women in movies and on tv. Here are some other recommendations (that I have seen):
Movies:
- Black Panther
- Hidden Figures
- The Incredibles 2
- Ocean’s 8
TV:
- Big Little Lies (HBO)
- Empire (Fox/Hulu)
- Glow (Netflix)
- The Handmaid’s Tale (Hulu)
What other recommendations do you have?
Featured image from IMDb
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